SECONDARY PURPOSE *********************************************************************** JUST AS THERE IS A TRUE PURPOSE FOR YOUR EXISTENCE, THERE ALSO IS A SECONDARY PURPOSE. UNDERSTANDING ONE'S PURPOSES FOR EXISTENCE, MOVING TOWARD THE FULFILLMENT OF ONE'S PURPOSES, DEVELOPS ONE'S INNER BEING, ONE'S SOUL, AND ENABLES ONE TO HAVE A HAPPY LIFE, LACED WITH JOY AND INNER CONTENTMENT. THE SECONDARY PURPOSE FOR YOUR EXISTENCE, IS TO ENTER INTO A PARTNERSHIP, MARRIAGE, WITH AN OPPOSITE SEX PARTNER, HAVE CHILDREN AND CREATE A LOVING, NURTURING FAMILY FOR YOUR CHILDREN, TO GROW AND DEVELOP IN. THIS PARTNERSHIP SHOULD HAVE DURATION. DURATION IS THE SELF-CONTAINED AND THEREFORE SELF-RENEWING MOVEMENT OF AN ORGANIZED, FIRMLY INTEGRATED WHOLE. A FAMILY IS THE NATIVE SOIL, FOR A CHILD'S GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT. WARMTH IS NEEDED TO PRODUCE THIS SOIL. WARMTH BINDS A FAMILY TOGETHER. WITHOUT WARMTH,THE ESSENCE OF THE FAMILY IS LOST AND ITS ENERGIES BECOME SCATTERED. A FAMILY NEEDS BALANCE, COOPERATION, AND HARMONY. BALANCE RESULTS FROM REASONABLE SHARING OF FAMILY DECISIONS AND RESPONSIBILITIES. COOPERATION RELIES ON THE CORRECT ORGANIZATION OF DIVERSE ENERGIES. THE FOUNDATION OF A FAMILY RESTS ON THE INTEGRATION OF MALE AND FEMALE ENERGIES. THE WAY THESE ENERGIES INTERACT DETERMINE THE HARMONY OF THE ENTIRE FAMILY. DISCIPLINE AND MUTUAL RESPECT BETWEEN A MAN AND WOMAN PREVENT ARGUMENTS WHICH DISRUPT HARMONY. WHEN THE MAN IS REALLY A FATHER AND HUSBAND, WHEN THE WOMAN IS REALLY A MOTHER AND WIFE, WHEN THE CHILDREN ARE REALLY CHILDREN, THEN THE FAMILY IS IN ORDER. WHEN A CULTURES FAMILIES ARE IN ORDER, THE CULTURE IS IN ORDER. THE PHYSICAL AND EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF PEOPLE ARE ALSO A PART OF THE BASIS FOR A MARRIAGE AND FAMILY. BOTH PARTNERS SHOULD TRY TO ANSWER AND FULFILL EACH OTHERS NEEDS. WHEN THE PARENT'S NEEDS ARE FULFILLED, THE PARENTS ARE MORE ABLE TO FULFILL THEIR CHILDREN'S NEEDS. FOR CHILDREN TO GROW UP INTO SPIRITUAL, LOVING, HAPPY, CREATIVE, BALANCED ADULTS WHO CAN CREATE NURTURING ENVIRONMENTS FOR THEIR CHILDREN, A NUMBER OF CONDITIONS ARE NECESSARY: THERE MUST BE TWO PARENTS. IT IS ESSENTIAL THAT BOTH MALE AND FEMALE ENERGY BE A PART OF EVERY DAY LIFE FOR A CHILD. PARENTS ARE ROLE MODELS FOR THEIR CHILDREN. MODELS FOR; WHAT IT IS TO BE A MAN, WHAT IT IS TO BE A WOMAN, HOW TO BE A FATHER, HOW TO BE A MOTHER, HOW A FAMILY SHOULD BE, INTERACT AND LIVE, AND FOR WHAT THE PURPOSES OF LIFE ARE. WHEN THE APPROPRIATE ROLE MODELS ARE THERE FOR THE CHILDREN, THEY GROW UP TO BE FINE ADULTS AND PARENTS. WHEN THE PARENTS EXHIBIT FIRM AND CONSISTENT CONDUCT, THEIR CHILDREN MAKE SUCH CONDUCT A PART OF THEMSELVES, A PART OF THEIR EVERYDAY LIFE. WHEN THESE ROLE MODELS ARE MISSING, ESPECIALLY FROM THEIR EARLY LIFE, CHILDREN GROW UP TO BE THE KIND OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE CONTINUAL DIFFICULTY IN THEIR RELATIONSHIPS WITH OTHERS, IN CREATING STABLE FAMILIES, IN FUNCTIONING APPROPRIATELY IN SOCIETY, AND IN LIFE IN GENERAL. WHEN PARENTS; KNOW AND UNDERSTAND THE PURPOSES OF LIFE. HAVE LOVE AND RESPECT FOR EACH OTHER. HAVE THEIR HEARTS OPEN TO EACH OTHER. TOUCH EACH OTHER OFTEN WITH LOVE AND GENTLENESS. GIVE THEIR FULL ATTENTION TO EACH OTHER WHEN COMMUNICATING. HAVE THEIR FAMILIES HAPPINESS AND WELL BEING AS A PRIME PRIORITY. PRACTICE SOME FORM OF SELF-CULTIVATION ON A DAILY BASIS. LIVE AND PRACTICE THEIR BELIEFS AS A WAY OF LIFE, HAVE BALANCE BETWEEN DISCIPLINE AND INDULGENCE, ALL GOES WELL IN THE FAMILY AND THE CHILDREN HAVE THE BEST POSSIBLE ENVIRONMENT TO LIVE AND GROW IN. CHILDREN LEARN MORE FROM THE UNSPOKEN ACTS AND INTERACTIONS OF THEIR FATHER AND MOTHER THAN THEY DO BY WHAT THEIR PARENTS DIRECTLY TEACH THEM. MAINTAINING LIFE BY EARNING A LIVING AND CONTINUING LIFE BY GIVING BIRTH TO THE NEXT GENERATION FULFILL THE FUNDAMENTAL PATTERN OF LIFE. FULFILLING THE FUNDAMENTAL PATTERN OF LIFE IS A PERSON'S SECONDARY PURPOSE FOR EXISTENCE.