MYTH Nothingness is the context for everything. Creation can only occur out of nothingness Beings begin as pure context and manifest themselves through content Every being is coextensive with all existence and therefore has created everything else. Everything that exists arises from the self. There is no other reality. "This is it, and that's that." All beings operate within two distinct types of reality true reality, which is experiential (accepting, observing, participating, sourcing) ordinary reality, which is illusory and involves non-experiential concepts (e.g., beliefs, values, attitudes, and rules) The truth originates as experiential reality but because the mind operates through symbols rather than immediate experience, communicating with others involves concepts rather than experience. While ordinary reality is compelling, its concepts are no more than agreements about what is true rather than experiential truth. As soon as concepts (beliefs) become detached from experience, they lose their experiential truth value because truth can only be experienced. The truth believed is a lie. Since the individual creates everything that is real, all concepts through which life is organized ultimately are the product of individual agreement. This means that the normative order on which society is based actually is a set of agreements to which the individual subscribed at some prior point. Every aspect of individuals' lives was chosen at some time. Since individuals have chosen the rules governing the social order, they should embrace those rules as their own choices. You should choose what you have got because you have got what you chose. The conclusion is that the world and individual beings are perfect just the way they are because they have been chosen The problem of humanity is that beings operate through concepts and develop an investment in them, treating them as true reality. Behavior is therefore shaped by beliefs that in turn condition behavior. Individuals then justify their beliefs and behavior, creating the illusion that they are free when in fact they are trapped in their own concepts The mind, which is a being's survival mechanism, ends up undermining the individuals' capacity for direct experience and hence for survival To make life work what is necessary is to keep one's agreements, and keeping agreements requires making them on the basis of experience rather than concepts The standard by which acts should be measured is aliveness, which is defined in terms of such individual qualities as spontaneity, naturalness, centeredness, wholeness, awareness, and fulfullment. Most people trade aliveness for survival When individuals recognize that they have in fact chosen their own circumstances, then it makes little sense to blame others and conflict vanishes. The method for achieving this recognition is fully experiencing the source of conflict Individuals "get it" when they recognize that they are ensnared in their own beliefs and that they are free to create their own experience. Getting it means being able to discover that you are holding a position (a context) which costs you more in aliveness than it is worth and being able to choose to give up (or transform) that position Getting it is therefore not learning new facts (additional content), it involves understanding those facts in a new way (a change of context). The result is that previously experienced conflicts simply disappear The test is whether an individual is able to experience living so that the situations you have been trying to change or have been putting up with clear up just in the process of life itself Once a sufficient number of individuals have transformed their lives, a societal transformation will occur