Sample from TANTRA DATES,VOLUME 1*by Sasha Lessin,Ph.D. TANTRA16.TXT
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       Date 2  DELIGHT DIONYSUS 
  
       Date 2, man receiving from Giver (his partner) has six parts  

       1)  Put Him in the Mudra   
       2)  Heal His Hurts,   
       3) Look at His Love Life   
       4)  Suppress His Squirt  
       5)  Work His Wand  
       6)  Bless His Base.

       In this sample of my book, I give you part 1, Put Him in theMudra. 

       Giver, reserve four hours with your Receiver in a lovely, peaceful,
       private sanctuary.  
       Arrange music, flowers, incense, food, your costume and your body to 
       delight him.  Then do the exercise, "Put Him in the Mudra". 
  
       PUT HIM IN THE MUDRA (Part 1, Date 2) 

       Lie on your sides; face each other. 
       Put your right hands on each other's hearts 
       Put your left hands on one another's perineums.  
       Chant "Lam" three times; 
       tighten your rosebud sphincter after each.  
       Send energy from your base chakra to his and say, together, 
       "I wish you health, safety and security". 
  
       Move your left hands to each others' genitals, send each other sexual 
       energy and chant " Vam" three times and squeeze your PC muscles.  
       Send each other sexual energy with each "Vam".   
       Say, with each other, 
       "I wish you sensual delight and sexual satisfaction." 
  
       Raise left hands to each others' bellies.  
       Chant "Ram" three times and, 
       with each "Ram," send empowerment rays through your hands into 
       each others' bellies.  
       Say, to one another, "May you take what's yours in life." 
  
       Put your left hands on each others' right hands, at each 
       others' hearts.  
       Send love and chant "Yam" together three times.   
       Say, "I love you; I receive your love." 
  
       Lift left hands to the back of each other's throats.  
       Chant "Ham" three times together and feel the throats vibrate.  
       Hear (in your mind's ear) words you'd say, songs you'd sing 
       each other.   
       Make a sound together.  
       Say, "Speak your truth." 
  
       Put your foreheads together, look in each other's eyes, 
       place left hands each others' heads.  
       Chant "Ooo" three times and experience psychic contact.  
       See your other lives together.   
       Say, " You know." 
  
       Put your left hands on each others' crowns and chant "Mmm" 
       three times.  
       Picture radiant energy flashes between your crowns.  
       Fanstasize that you meld into a single spiritual being with 
       two complementary parts not just a dyad, but a two-part spirit, 
       a synergad.    
       Say, "We are one."