TO PUT SOMEONE IN THE SUGAR BOWL You'll need something to represent her/him (a photo, a slip of paper with Their full name, a personal item, etc...). Take the item and place it in a bowl of sugar--you can also place it in the sugar canister if you wish--so that the sugar completely covers it. Say, "About me, you will think only sweet thoughts. About me you will only say sweet things. As I will it, so mote it be." Walk away from the sugar bowl, do not discuss the working with anyone, and do not dwell on the situation. (I have found that, if I continue to focus on the problem, the results of my spells often are hampered.)