How can a woman tell: HOWCAN.TXT *********************************************************************** How can a woman tell if a man really loves her? An interesting question in a culture where man and woman come together and enter a relationship mainly based on "chemistry" and self-centeredness is generally the norm for many people. ----------------------------------------------------------------------- Your personal happiness will be a prime priority in his life ! He will open his heart fully to you and allow himself to be vulnerable. He will love and accept you as you are right this moment without expecting you to be someone you are not, nor asking you to change who you are to please him. He will respect you, and he will respect your opinions and beliefs even when his are different. He will not judge you for what you think, for the feelings you have, for your fears nor for things you have done in the past before you came togeter with him, so you will be able to share your deepest secrets with him without fear. He will be willing and able to do the same with you. He will communicate with you openly and fully about everything. He will give you his full attention and look directly into your eyes when you are communicating with him. He will be supportive of your decisions and personal growth. He will be interested in having you share your feelings when they are happening and he will share his with you. He will be interested in the events that happen in your life each day. He will be interested in hearing in depth about things you experienced in your past because it will assist him in understanding who you are today and how you came to be as you are. He will want to spend as much of his free time with you as he can. After he has been apart from you and sees you again, a flash of joy will appear in his face. When you call him on the telephone you will hear some joy in his voice just because he is hearing your voice. He will from time to time dream up little things to surprise you and bring a little joy to your heart and a smile to your face. He will experience pleasure from the simplest physical contact with you. He will touch you and hold you affectionately often, even when making love is very unlikely. And he will verbally express his love often. He will inquire about what things please you. He will love to do things for you that please you. He will love to brush your hair, give you long massages, and bath you. He will assist you in keeping your home clean and reasonably organized, so you will have more free time. He will be considerate of you, your feelings and your needs. He will never call you names or yell at you. He will no longer spend his much of his time watching TV or sporting events and will no longer have a strong need to hang out with his male friends, for his time with you will be more important to him than these things.