PARTNERS FOR SEEKERS OF TRUTH AND WISDOM ---------------------------------------------------------------------- ONCE ONE HAS COME TO UNDERSTAND, THE TRUE PURPOSES OF A HUMAN LIFE, HERE ON THIS EARTH, CHOOSING A OPPOSITE SEX LONG TERM PARTNER, BECOMES A FAR MORE DEMANDING TASK. IF ONE DOES NOT PARTNER WITH ONE WHO ALSO UNDERSTANDS, AND WITH ONE WHO ALSO SEEKS, MAINTAINING BALANCE AND BEING CONSISTENT IN ONE'S SELF-CULTIVATION, ON A DAILY BASIS, IS VERY DIFFICULT. YOUR PARTNER NEEDS TO BE ABLE TO CREATE, ALONE/QUIET TIME FOR YOU EACH DAY FOR YOUR PRACTICE. YOUR PARTNER NEEDS TO NOURISH YOU ON A DAILY BASIS. THE FULL "SUPPORT" OF YOUR PARTNER IS NEEDED, ESPECIALLY IN TIMES OF STRESS, AND OR WHEN THE "OUTSIDE" WORLD IS BEING DIFFICULT. IN THESE TIMES IT IS OF GREAT BENEFIT, TO BE ABLE TO RETREAT TO YOUR HOME, TO RETREAT TO YOUR PARTNER, TO GATHER YOUR STRENGTH, AND REBUILD YOUR INNER LIGHT. BEFORE VENTURING OUT, INTO THE STORMS OF LIFE ONCE MORE. IF YOUR PARTNER DOES NOT HAVE YOU, AS THEIR FIRST PRIORITY IN LIFE, YOU DO NOT HAVE & WILL NOT HAVE, WHAT YOU NEED TO PROGRESS. COMMON GOALS, "LIFE PRIORITIES", AND MUTUAL RESPECT, FOR THE "INDIVIDUAL DIFFERENCES" OF THE EMBODIED SOULS, IS REQUIRED IN YOUR PARTNERS "MAKEUP" SO THE PARTNER CAN BE THERE FULLY FOR YOU WITHOUT JUDGMENT AND NURTURE YOUR GROWTH. PARTNERS NEED TO BE ABLE TO, SLIDE THROUGH THE ROLES OF: STUDENT, TEACHER, STUDENTS TOGETHER, FATHER/DAUGHTER, MOTHER/SON, BEST FRIENDS, EQUALS, LOVERS, COMFORTABLY WITHOUT FEELINGS, OF SUPERIORITY OR INFERIORITY ARISING. YOUR PARTNER NEEDS TO BE RESPONSIBLE, ON MANY LEVELS, WILLING AND ABLE TO MAKE COMMITMENTS AND KEEP THEM. OFTEN A PERSON APPEARS TO HAVE TO GO THROUGH, A NUMBER OF RELATIONSHIPS BEFORE A LONG TERM SUITABLE POTENTIAL PARTNER SHOW UP IN THEIR LIFE. ONE TEACHER WAS HEARD TO SAY: "MAN/WOMAN RELATIONSHIPS ARE LIKE STREETCARS, THERE IS ALWAYS ANOTHER ONE COMING ALONG." IF ONE WATCHES CAREFULLY, THIS BECOMES APPARENT ALL TOO SOON. EACH OF THE RELATIONSHIPS, APPEARS TO PROVIDE EXPERIENCES OF, WHAT IS APPROPRIATE FOR YOU TO HAVE IN A PARTNER, AND WHAT IS NOT APPROPRIATE FOR YOU TO HAVE IN A PARTNER. IT ALSO APPEARS THAT ONCE ONE HAS LEARNED, FROM THESE EXPERIENCES, SUFFICIENTLY, A PERSON MAGICALLY MANIFESTS INTO YOUR LIFE, WITH WHOM YOU CAN PARTNER WITH LONG TERM. THE DIVINE SOMETIMES SELECTS AND TAILORS, TWO TO BE PARTNERS. UNFORTUNATELY IT OFTEN HAPPENS THAT WHEN, THE DIVINE "TAILORS" TWO, AND BRINGS THEM TOGETHER TO PARTNER, THEY MEET AND BUT PASS BY EACH OTHER AND MOVE ON WITHOUT RECOGNIZING EACH OTHER. FOR THEY ARE ATTACHED TO INNER IMAGES, CREATED IN THEM AS CHILDREN, THAT THEIR PARTNER HAS TO BE A CERTAIN RACE, COLOR, CREED, SHAPE, SIZE, AGE, AND OR OTHER CHARACTERISTICS. OR THEY ARE ATTACHED TO, AND WANT TO FEEL A CERTAIN "CHEMISTRY" FOR THE PERSON, FEEL THEY HAVE TO BE IN "ROMANTIC LOVE" WITH A PERSON THEY PARTNER WITH. OR ARE ATTACHED TO THE MANNER, IN WHICH THE PARTNER HAS TO MANIFEST, AND TO WHAT COLOR OF HORSE, THE PARTNER HAS TO BE RIDING, WHEN THEY APPEAR. ALL THE ABOVE ARE "WRONG" UNDERSTANDINS. SOMETIMES A PERSON LACKS HUMILITY, BELIEVES THEY KNOW BETTER THAN THE DIVINE, WHAT AND WHO IS THE BEST PARTNER THEM. SO THEY CONTINUE TO CHOSE PARTNERS WHO ARE INAPPROPRIATE AND CHANGE PARTNERS OFTEN. IF YOU FIND A PERSON WHO BRINGS YOU BLISS, WHEN THEIR ENERGY ENTERS YOU, FILLS YOU, KNOW THIS IS A PERSON APPROPRIATE FOR YOU, TO PARTNER WITH. A PARTNER YOU CAN CREATE A GREAT DEEP LOVE WITH, GROW INDIVIDUALLY AND AS A COUPLE TOGETHER, AND MOVE INTO THE LIGHT TOGETHER. WHEN TWO GIVE UP SOME OF THEMSELVES, GIVE EACH OTHER FULL LOVE AND DEVOTION, A UNION IS CAN BE CREATED, THAT IS A LARGER, A STRONGER, A MORE POWERFUL "FORCE FOR LOVE". IN THE UNIVERSE, THAN EITHER COULD MANIFEST ALONE. IN THIS UN-REALITY WE CALL LIFE ON PLANET EARTH, THERE ARE TWO BASIC WAYS TO REACH YOUR PRIMARY PURPOSE FOR HAVING THE BLESSING OF A HUMAN BODY TO LIVE IN: 1. ALONE 2. WITH A APPROPRIATE OPPOSITE SEX PARTNER. IT MAKES NO DIFFERENCE TO THE DIVINE WHICH WAY YOU CHOSE ! THE CHOICE IS FULLY YOURS ! TODAY IS THE FIRST DAY OF THE REST OF YOUR LIFE !!!! ganashyam das